The Pharisees of the gospels are stereotypes made to ease the dirty business of judgment. The truth is more likely that when Jesus overturned the tables of the temple, Jesus was marked as a crank, seen as crossing the line of propriety if not morality, and taken as more than a little self-righteous. We do not behave in vacuums. Acting outside the boundaries is not recognized as an innovation, but, interpreted in light of the boundaries, is recognized as violence. The hermeneutic by which our behavior is read is the norm of behavior. Reformation and revolution can never be recognized outright as the need of the time. The Pharisees will be our natural measure of holiness.
Of course, this is a difficult and dangerous lesson to learn. It is difficult to learn because we resist change as the psychologically and sociologically conservative species that we are. The lesson is dangerous because it makes it seem impossible that we will recognize the limits of authentic and beneficial movements for change, thus rejecting self-serving and possibly deadly calls for revolution. There is a wariness because we cannot formulate a new law to govern behavior in the face of a truly open society. But the Gospel call is for love, and not for law. Paul even goes so far as to reject the legitimacy of the law after the resurrection. (Understand that how you will.) As Aleister Crowley wrote not so long ago, “Love is the law, love under will.”
And that is really as much guidance as there may be with regard to love, at least as far as I can see. Reflections on love should not end. Views may shift and mutate. But love is the guide in my worldview… beyond all good and evil.
Humans are relatively predictable, we act in light of pretty clear material interests even if those interests are not clear to us, when we are fortunate enough to have such settled interests. We act out of fear of the out-group to protect interests, when we have no material interests worth mentioning, and a hundred other heuristic shortcuts lead to mistakes that govern our behavior. War and politics are just the highest level expressions of those psychological and sociological mistakes, possibly preventable but definitely predictable. Good and evil is molded by this evolution of moral vision. Only love escapes the rule that says the Pharisee is the holy man, only a love that sees with the vision of the other and pours itself out. This all but guarantees that we will see love as a violence to the domain of holiness. May we have the courage of the vision of love.